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As BIPoC and LGBT folk, we are so often made to feel ashamed of who we are and what we like.

This shame can cause us to feel disconnected from ourselves, our bodies, and how we experience pleasure.

Here at Wildest Dreams Therapy, we believe that pleasure is your birthright. Whether you’re sharing physical intimacy with a partner, engaginging in solo play, or exploring the world of BDSM and kink, you deserve to feel fully present and embodied in your sexuality.

Through our work together, I aim to facilitate a deep dive into your relationship with sex, pleasure, and intimacy. My goal is to help you explore your desires, identify your sexual needs, and engage in fulfilling sexual connections. Over the course of your time in therapy, we will work towards your shared goals with hopes of building a thriving relationship with yourself and/or your partner(s).

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Frequently Asked Questions

  • While we serve all people, we specialize in providing identity-affirming care to people of color, as well as queer, transgender, non-binary, and gender-expansive individuals and their partners or family. Many of our clients identify as:

    • People of color

    • Queer folks

    • Trans and gender-expansive folks

    • Survivors of trauma

    • Individuals and partners

    • Folks practicing or interested in kink and BDSM

    • Sex workers

    • & more!

  • • Gender identity and sexual orientation

    • Desire discrepancies between partners

    • Sexual trauma

    • Non-monogamy

    • Kink & BDSM

    • Sexual dysfunction

    • Exploring sexual desires

  • Sex therapy can oftentimes look very similar to traditional modes of psychotherapy, with an emphasis on discussing sexuality, intimacy, and pleasure. Sex therapy promotes the development of a strong mind-body connection as it entails exploring thoughts and feelings, in addition to exploring what pleasure feels like in your body.

  • Wildest Dreams Therapy operates based upon an anti-oppressive sliding scale fee structure that is built around our standard rate of $200 per session for individuals and $250 per session for partners. Since everyone’s financial situation is different, we provide a limited number of slots at several different fee tiers above and below our standard rate. We invite you to review our sliding scale fee structure guide here.

    I am not in-network with insurance. I am an out-of-network provider, so I am able to provide you with the documentation that you need to seek reimbursement from your insurance company if you have out-of-network benefits.

  • I do not offer in-person sessions at this time. I exclusively offer virtual sessions via a HIPAA-compliant video conference platform.

  • Yes! While I am licensed to provide psychotherapy exclusively in NY and NJ, I offer sexuality & pleasure coaching for clients who reside outside of these states. Coaching is different from psychotherapy in that it does not include the assessment, diagnosis, and treatment of client’s mental health concerns. Instead, coaching focuses on setting and achieving goals related to personal development and skill-building.

    Coaching is not a replacement for psychotherapy.

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